Practice God's speech.
Job 22:28 states what so ever is decreed and declared shall be established.Our words carry tremendous power,the same creative power of Jesus Christ dwells with in the tongue of a believer because his Holy Spirit now lives and resides with in us.
We have to constantly pay attention to the words we are speaking out into the spirit realm because either way they will produce good fruit or bad fruit,blessing or a curse.James 3:9-10 says:
(Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God.
10 Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be)
I really believe that it's important to have our minds renewed with the word of God daily because when our minds and hearts are truly renewed with the word of God we see things the way God sees them and our tongues come into alignment with his word.In order to do that we need to be students of the word,you can't renew your mind with the word of God if you don't study it nor meditate on it.Sermons on television can do so much but we are required to be students of the word,how would you know if a pastor is preaching error if you don't know the word of God?I understand that they are some who can't read and write but God is able.
I am sure every reader would agree that we often speak according to what's before us,or what we see with our eyes.We speak according to the news we recieve,how things appear in the natural and how we feel,where as we should be speaking in allignment with the word of God in every aspect of our lives and every situation we face.Jesus said he only did what he saw his father do and so should we because as Christ is so are we in this world.
I have heard this saying about some people are over spiritual because they choose not to speak about the things of this world only about the things above.Like Paul said I wonder who have bewitched the body of Christ,where in the word/bible was Jesus or his disciple Paul caught up constantly with the cares of this world?you see what you are focused on you will give life to and becomes transformed into it's image.
I remember courting a few females in the past who found it strange that I was constantly speaking about Jesus ,they rolled their eyes because they wanted me to be heavily caught up in deeply rooted wrong conversations,of course I issued them with a walking ticket but can you see the spirit of compromise?when you start to compromise you will open the door to the thief who comes to kill,steal and destroy.
I am not saying to go on a date and not ask anything about the person you want to get to know but often I was asked,aren't you gonna ask much ,my answer was no because the Holy Spirit already told me all I needed to know or what he wanted me to know so that I would'nt judge nor condemn.
In all you do this day and every day to come let the words you speak flow hand in hand with the word of God and see how the spiritual climate and atmosphere around you changes instantly,you will have the angels running around you feeding you pop corn.
shalom and love